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If you're living the bachelor lifestyle (and you're straight), one of the keys to a happier life is meeting and then possibly dating more women. For many of us it's an obsession. Variety is one the key advantages of the bachelor life. There are so many attractive, interesting and captivating women out there, and we want to experience of getting to know them. Of course, some of us look for more casual relationships which maximizes variety and fun. Others prefer more traditional relationships even if you're not looking to get married. Either way, meeting more women leads to a much more dynamic lifestyle.

Every single guy wants to be able to meet more women. Whether you're already doing well with the ladies or you need to get out of a rut, there are a ton of tools out there to give you more at bats. These tools are helpful whether you're just looking to hook up or find a relationship. We’ll focus on those sites that we think offer the best chance to meet women. We’ll also give you useful tips from experts who can help you write the best personal ads that get the most responses.

Living The Bachelor Lifestyle - Meeting More Women

The basics here are easy. In the bachelor lifestyle, you want to leverage every tactic to meet more women. Quantity gives you more choices and opportunity. Then you want to improve your game, so you'll get more dates. Meeting them means nothing if you're going to screw it up by being boring. Again, more choices and more opportunity. And finally, you have to be the kind of guy they come back to. Be an interesting and dynamic guy, and you'll be deciding which women you want to keep in your life.

What She’ll See in Your Bachelor Pad
If you're a bachelor, don't get lazy and ignore the little things. And stop acting like you're in college. Most women want a man that acts like a grown-up, at least some of the time. "When you bring her home to your apartment or house for the first time, she’s going to pay attention to everything, and the little things might make the difference as to whether you’ll be having a great evening or even the chance at another date."

How did the film “Fifty Shades of Grey” change the culture of dating and sex?
The dating game has been evolving. Now, if you want to explore kinky sex and BDSM with your girl, then you' re in luck. Since the debut of this movie, more women are open to discussing kinky sex and BDSM, and are also more open to trying new things. Keep this in mind with new relationships or if you want to spice up your long-term relationship.

Pick-up artists

As noted above, there are several key strategies you need to consider. First, you need to meet more women. This means improving your approach skills. Also, you need to improve your batting average so you can close the deal with more women. That means improving all your other skills. You have to have game! Check out the great advice from the various pickup artists below and find the one that's right for you. All of the them will help!

Neil Strauss: a.k.a. "Style"
Neil's book "The Game" is probably the best and most entertaining resource if you're interested in the world of pick-up artists and how to improve your own game. Neil recounts his personal journey as a successful writer who rarely "got lucky" with women to one of the best pick-up artists in the world. It's a fascinating read, and regardless of whether you pursue his strategies, you'll never look at women and interpersonal relationships in the same way. If you want to improve your game and hook up with more women, definitely check out his StyleLife Academy.

Ross Jeffries – Speed Seduction
Ross Jeffries is the trailblazer in the area. His Speed Seduction exploded onto the scene years ago and spawned the new generation of pickup artists. Ross’s system is based on NLP: neuro-linguistic programming. The notion here is that we are influenced greatly by our subconscious needs and desires, and that you can influence a woman’s perception of you with the words and phrases you use when speaking to her. Words trigger responses in our brains, and NLP can be used for all sorts of self-help purposes. Speed Seduction is a fascinating system, and anyone who wants to improve how they approach and interact with women should explore Ross’s program.

David DeAngelo
The creator of the "cocky-funny" approach detailed in the Double Your Dating system is one of the most widely read and followed pick-up artists around. We have carried his articles for years, and you can check them out for some incredible advice on improving your game.

These guys are some of the greats, but you can learn more about them and other pickup artists on our pickups artists guide.

Adult Personal Ads

One of the hottest trends involves adult personal ads. If you're tired of just dating and want to cut straight to the chase, check out the adult dating sites instead.

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There are plenty of real women on this site, you just have to be savvy as you look for them. This site takes the best of adult dating sites and combines it with the best features of your favorite social media sites. The result is a pretty awesome hookup site where you can meet real women posting pics and starting converations. Of course you have to do some screening, but if you put some effort into this you can find some incredible hookups!

Ashley Madison
This is getting a ton of attention as it's the place to go if you're interested in an affair. It's not just for people who are attached, however. Basically, if you're looking to hook up, this is a good option.
This site is pretty awesome. Basically, it's for guys looking for Sugar Babies. What does that mean? Well, if you have the means to spoil a young hottie, you'll find tons of hot women on this site looking for a Sugar Daddy. Some or looking for some short term NSA fun, while others are looking for an ongoing relationship with someone who can spoil them. Here you avoid some of the BS on other dating sites, as everyone knows the game going in. Also, the site is loaded with real profiles of hot women! Check it out and get a hot babe on your arm!

If you're looking for a serious relationship this site is well worth it. It's the site that pioneered the idea of creating a true match based on personality characteristics. You've seen the commercials so check it out.

Adult Friendfinder
This is another huge adult personals site. They're motto is "Real People - Real Sex." Like any other site, you need to spend time sifting through the profiles to find the real ones. If you hit a good one, it's definitely worth the effort!
This site is another great tool if you're looking to hook up. The big selling point here is that they have verified profiles with verified photos. This helps tremendously in filtering out the useless profiles.

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